In memory of our very special beautiful blue eyed boy Henry

This site is a tribute to H, who was born in Dover birthing centre Kent on September 05, 2007. Henry is our youngest son, clever, sensitive, kind, loving and caring especially with his pets, we hope his life can help future learnings for Autism, anorexia and Alexithymia. You will be in our hearts forever never to be forgotten.

H we love you very much Mum, Dad, Ben, Basil and Tsuki which means moon in Japanese. XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

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Miss you forever son Hope all ok up their in heaven xxxxx
Dad
27th October 2023
That was beautiful Henry You visited me last night I write this with tears in my eyes To see you in my dream so vividly I write it down to cherish it, I think it was real, sending a message that you are ok. I was in a room Glyn and some one else were discussing going for a run You were healthy, beautiful and bright relaxing on a sofa upright wearing a cap and smiling I asked you if you were going for run also. You said no, I said me neither I asked ‘you ok? You replied and nodded Yes with a big smile . I leaned down and we hugged each other in tears all my emotions of losing you came out. Thank you Henry I love you so much Miss you son I think you are ok somewhere else although I so wish it was here.Xxx
Dad
20th February 2023
There lies within me a great sadness deep in my heart That is tinted with anger and bitterness along the way. Life and death is very hard We live the consequences of a lost son everyday, yes we go on in away, but we lost everything of meaning that day. Planning the future is very hard because it has no baseness in our hearts, Less Caring for others or interested in life seem to diminish as the heart is broken. We go on for Ben our eldest son day to day but it is very hard to live a lye that everything is ok because inside we are broken. Grief is a lonely place and child loss and is not a subject people want to talk about, life is for laughter and living, death,misery negative or sad things are the opposite and must be avoided. So you live alone in the mist with your thoughts regrets and what could and should have been for our beautiful lost son. Negotiating each day as it comes. One day I hope to write a book about Henry and his life and what happened in lockdown Both in his memory and for understanding and being aware of mental health, autism and eating disorders, and grief of a lost child. Missing you HenryX
Dad
13th January 2023
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